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LOOKING BACK FROM A HIGHER LEVEL

20 3月 , 2019  

女权主义者的性欲观(读书笔记:杰茜卡瓦伦蒂:《正面全裸的女权主义》)笔者一贯觉得,女权主义者都是些身穿男性西装剪着娃他爹发型叼着香烟不刮腋毛的中性人,直到读了瓦伦蒂那本《正面全裸的女权主义》。未来才清楚过来,原来女权主义者也是有七情六欲的!不仅如此,她们的欲望比日常女性更直接,更强势,更自私。瓦伦蒂用了任何1个章节来阐释女权主义的性欲观。标题是《女权主义者更善于干那事(以及其它关于性的升迁)FEMINISTS
DO IT BETTE奥迪Q7 (AND OTHE奇骏 SEX
TIPS)》。她开门见山就笔者炫耀“小编在床上比你行,而那得归功于女权主义。”(I’m
better in bed than you are. And I have feminism to thank for
it.)现代夫权社会对女孩子有一种自相龃龉的双重标准:一方面,女生在公共场所承受“守贞教育”,深夜则在TV上观察“女孩也疯狂”的广告。一方面,女孩被指引说婚前性行为是畸形的,另一方面又告诉你,你若想成为一名春假辣妹,你神速对着镜头宽衣解带吧!(When
you’re getting abstinence-only education during the day and Girls Gone
魏尔德 commercials at night, it’s not exactly easy to develop a healthy
sexuality. You’re taught that sex before marriage is bad bad bad, but
that if you want to be a springbreak hottie, you’d better start making
out for the
camera.)守贞国学家是这么来教育女生的:“你们的身子正是一根棒棒糖。当你们与爱人爆发性关系时,他剥去你的门面,含吮起来。当时或许感觉到不错,可遗憾的是,他与您完事后,你们留给下壹个人伴侣的就是衣冠不整,口水臭味的流毒。”(“Your
body is a wrapped lollipop. When you have sex with a man, he unwraps
your lollipop and sucks on it. It may feel great at the time, but
unfortunately, when he’s done with you, all you have left for your next
partner is a poorly wrapped, saliva-fouled sucker.
“)够耸人听大人讲的。不过女权主义者不吃这一套。瓦伦蒂建议的口号是:“小编的处女膜笔者做主!(Our
Hymens, Ourselves
)”她说:“笔者从没闹驾驭处女贞操有何样大不断,真的。作者的贞操在中学时期就被一名男朋友没怎么费力就夺去了。大家后来还约会了少数年啊。作者还以为会有啥新鲜的痛感吗,没有。小编总觉得那种把处女贞操当成如花似玉一遍事很拙笨。所以你能够设想,当本身发现自身原来是被用过即弃的垃圾堆时有多愕然。”(I
have never really understood what the big deal was about virginity.
Really. Mine was lost without a great deal of fanfare to a high school
boyfriend whom I dated for several years afterward. I expected to feel
different—I didn’t. The whole precious-flower-virginity thing always
seemed silly to me. So imagine my surprise when I found out that I was
just a used-up piece of trash without
it.)笔者比较纳闷的是,女权主义者总体上是瞧不起男士的。不过在拍卖自身的性欲时,她们对郎君的情态显明又是另一番山水。诚然,她们与女婿上床,再也不是为了取悦娃他爹,更不是为了后继有人,而纯粹是为着协调的高兴。用瓦伦蒂露骨的话,就是:一边做女权主义者,一边啪啪啪!(f***ing
while feminist
!)只是,面对1个人性欲如此高涨态度如此强势的女权主义床伴,哪一人小男子消受得起?

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自家平素认为,女权主义者都以些身穿男性西装剪着老公发型叼着香烟不刮腋毛的中性人,直到读了瓦伦蒂那本《正面全裸的女权主义》。

(部分翻译仅凭个人感觉,不完全遵照原来的文章翻译)

以后才晓得过来,原来女权主义者也是有七情六欲的!不仅如此,她们的欲念比常见女性更直接,更强势,更自私。

As I look back on my experiences, it’s interesting to reflect on how my
perspectives have changed.

瓦伦蒂用了百分之百2个章节来论述女权主义的性欲观。标题是《女权主义者更擅长干那事(以及别的关于性的唤起)FEMINISTS
DO IT BETTE卡宴 (AND OTHE本田CR-V SEX TIPS)》。

When I started out, each and every twist and turn I encountered,
whether in the markets or in my life in general, looked really big and
dramatic up close, like unique life-or-death experiences that were
coming at me fast.

他开门见山就自个儿炫耀“小编在床上比你行,而那得归功于女权主义。”(I’m better
in bed than you are. And I have feminism to thank for it.)

(刚起初的时候,认为商场和生存中的际遇的战败与题材,格外伟大,像至极的生死存亡的经验)

现代男权社会对女士有一种自相争执的双重标准:一方面,女子在公开地方收受“守贞教育”,清晨则在TV上看看“女孩也疯狂”的广告。一方面,女孩被辅导说婚前性行为是非正常的,另一方面又报告您,你若想成为一名春假辣妹,你急迅对着镜头宽衣解带吧!(When
you’re getting abstinence-only education during the day and Girls Gone
魏尔德 commercials at night, it’s not exactly easy to develop a healthy
sexuality. You’re taught that sex before marriage is bad bad bad, but
that if you want to be a springbreak hottie, you’d better start making
out for the camera.)

With time and experience, I came to see each encounter as “another one
of those” that I could approach more calmly and analytically, like a
biologist might approach an encounter with a threatening creature in the
jungle: first identifying its species and then, drawing on his prior
knowledge about its expected behaviors, reacting appropriately.

新萄京娱乐场手机版 ,守贞史学家是那般来教育女子的:“你们的身体便是一根棒棒糖。当你们与郎君产生性关系时,他剥去你的门面,含吮起来。当时可能觉得没错,可遗憾的是,他与您完事后,你们留给下1人伴侣的正是衣冠不整,口水臭味的残余。”(“Your
body is a wrapped lollipop. When you have sex with a man, he unwraps
your lollipop and sucks on it. It may feel great at the time, but
unfortunately, when he’s done with you, all you have left for your next
partner is a poorly wrapped, saliva-fouled sucker. “)

(随着年华和阅历的增进,碰到新题材更为冷静处理)

够耸人听大人说的。然而女权主义者不吃这一套。瓦伦蒂建议的口号是:“笔者的处女膜笔者做主!(Our
Hymens, Ourselves )

就像biologist, 首先识别难题,找出先验知识,然后采取适度的走动。**

”她说:“笔者从没闹明白处女贞操有怎么着大不断,真的。笔者的贞操在中学时代就被一名男朋友没怎么费力就夺去了。大家后来还约会了有个别年吧。小编还觉得会有啥样新鲜的感觉到吗,没有。我总认为那种把处女贞操当成如花似玉3回事很愚钝。所以您能够想像,当本身发现自身原来是被用过即弃的杂质(或棒棒糖)时有多愕然。”(I
have never really understood what the big deal was about virginity.
Really. Mine was lost without a great deal of fanfare to a high school
boyfriend whom I dated for several years afterward. I expected to feel
different—I didn’t. The whole precious-flower-virginity thing always
seemed silly to me. So imagine my surprise when I found out that I was
just a used-up piece of trash (or candy) without it.)

When I was faced with types of situations I had encountered before, I
drew on the principles I had learned for dealing with them. 

本人对比纳闷的是,女权主义者总体上是看不起男生的。不过在处理本人的人事时,她们对先生的神态明朗又是另一番光景。诚然,她们与先生上床,再也不是为了讨好老公,更不是为着繁衍后代,而纯粹是为了本身的欢腾。用瓦伦蒂露骨的话,便是:一边做女权主义者,一边啪啪啪!(Fucking
while feminist !)

(以前境遇的标题,使用已经学到的标准)


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